17 Jun Love: Is it a Mystery?
We all fall in love at some points in our lives, whether you’re a novice or an expert. But I don’t think there are experts when it comes to this, there are just hearts that have learned to take the heat no matter how hot it is. That’s what I call love experience.
I have been in love so many times. Each of the intimate relationships I’ve had have always opened me up to newer opportunities if not for anything but for understanding my personality better. I fell in love with all angels with choices, with decisions, with goals and dreams not with mere women. But women that I believed had greatness in them. Yes all those words are awesome but they did turn sour at some point. I loved her, but the best I message I got after all was no thank you. You don’t fit the bill, you don’t fit my energy, you don’t fit into my culture.
In all breakups we sense danger at some point and we try to address them but it’ll look like you are futuristic and overtly ambitious. We can all be very selfish sometimes, that’s human nature. But why do we prefer to leave when others want us more, give up when that’s the moment everything needs to shape up. When love fades and if it does we reignite and reinvent that’s the purpose. I enjoy love because without love I won’t be able to love more.
Are you in love or have you been in love, how did you cope when you lost the fire? Did you move on with or without your partner?
GODIYA NATHANPosted at 07:07h, 20 June
Yes, of cos there are no experts in ‘love’ only those strong enough to handle anytin. I do not want to justify the selfishness of humans in decision making, but most a times pple fear they can’t tolerate them (gf’s) for the rest of their lives as they continue to look for the “perfect one” without actually realising they can make any1 they love ‘perfect’… Nice piece though!
AkinMorePosted at 17:12h, 20 June
Thanks bro, absolutely true no one is perfect and I think our selfishness in thinking we can make anyone perfect makes love an illusion. As business so as love too because business thrive on a very heavy price such as risk taking. Na God start the business we should all follow suit. He loved us while we were still sinners.
abiPosted at 09:20h, 20 June
AkinMorePosted at 17:09h, 20 June
stevekelyPosted at 09:53h, 20 June
well, love is a gift and its from God,for us to truly have its basic understanding and practice it as well we have to go back to me as the light that shine away darkness bro.
u just need sometime with him and he alone can teach us what TRUE love is and means.
knowledge and the definition of a thing is 90% free from disaster bro.
so u need to pray for revelation on the word love so not to end up with the same ending in the pasted…
AkinMorePosted at 17:13h, 20 June
Well said bro. God is love and love is King. Thanks for your contribution.
JoyPosted at 17:23h, 20 June
Love is un explainable u cnt define love cus its does nt have a specific defination. When u r in love u feel ontop of d world, u feel u v goten der nt minding wat wil apen next, love is a teacher. When d fire is no more der u jes av to continue wit ur life cus wat wil be will be mayb u were nt meant 4 each oda in d first place
AkinMorePosted at 19:48h, 20 June
Hmmmmm thanks very much for your comment. I think love make us lose our heads sometimes we forget we are meant to learn through the process. Love is the greatest of all, even in thoughts, words and deeds. Thanks for your contribution. Please endeavour to share.
ODIKINGS KCFRPosted at 18:11h, 20 June
Love is love, there is no true defination of what it is, losing the fire is more or less losing a part of you! Powerful piece. Thumbs up bro.
AkinMorePosted at 19:46h, 20 June
Thanks bro. Wow I love that “losing that fire is more or less losing a part of you” this part was so strong on me and how I felt some few weeks ago. Love still brings great recovery because the power of love cannot be dissipated.